June 2011
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Better days
After today, I’m glad I can now let out a sigh of relief. Summer days are finally getting better (regarding my parents and summer goals), and I’m so happy that things are finally looking up. Thoughts and worries are no longer heavily lingering through my head. I think they’re finally starting to understand (or at least willing to!). After plenty of judgement and...
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A day well spent <3
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Day 13
My ideal date would involve riding in a hot air balloon. I’ve always wanted to ride in a hot air balloon, but haven’t had the chance yet. So if he were to surprise me with a morning walk leading the two of us there, then I’d be beyond happy.
The two of us in a basket over looking the fields, wineries, maybe even a lake- isn’t extravagant, but it’s meaningful, and...
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Day 12
My favorite quote is, “everything happens for a reason.” Simply because I truly believe things occur as they are supposed to. There’s a reason why we’ve all been put on this earth; we all serve a purpose. As the Bible says, “we know that all things work together for good to those that love God, to those who are the called according to his purpose.” Romans 8:28...
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Day 11
I’m currently single; and to be honest, I’ve never been in a real relationship. I mean, I’ve dated (and still do), but my involvement with guys have never reached the official “boyfriend/girlfriend” stage (I’m super picky). If I’m going to pursue a real relationship, my mindset has to be confident in doing so. From past experience, I’ve learned not...
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Day 10
My opinion on drugs and alcohol itself is basically negative. This is obviously coming from an individual who voluntarily does not partake in drugs or alcohol, so consider myself a “straight edge.”
I can understand the proper consumption of alcohol (being of legal age, drinking responsibly), but once it becomes uncontrollable, it becomes dangerous. Becoming addicted to drugs or...
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Day 09
My last kiss was a few months ago, early March to be exact (I only have a vivid memory because it was during an Ohana event). And to describe it, it was passionate. The kisses weren’t pecks, nor were they the “sucking the life out of each others’ faces” type, they were the right balance. So if you know the definition of “passionate,” then there isn’t much...
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Day 08
It’d be preferable not to date “someone plain with an amazing personality” nor “someone beautiful with a plain personality.” I want to date someone who acquires beauty in both the inner and outer contents entirely (but that’s ideal). I think physical attraction plays a huge role in the relationship; if you aren’t physically attracted to your partner, then...
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Day 07
If you aren’t satisfied with your relationship and seek your desires in another, change your status. Regardless of what either partner has done, cheating is wrong. If you truly love someone, cheating should never be a consideration. Save yourself as well as your partner some time and stress by admitting to your crime. It’s not to say that everyone doesn’t deserve a second chance,...
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Day 06
I’m currently not interested in anyone right now, so I’ll tell you about someone I previously had an emotional connection with. I won’t mention his full name, so I’ll go by his initials, N.L.
We met over two years ago on a college campus for a HS conference. Long story short, we had an immediate connection from the time we actually met (dancing during lunch) to a few...
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Day 05
There aren’t many things about the opposite or same sex that have the ability to irritate me, so I’ll focus on the major displeasures. I’ll explain two things that irritate me about each sex and explain one irritation for both. Each explanation isn’t limited to just that sex, some more than others, can apply to both the ladies and gents. BE WARNED: this is strictly my...
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Rough patch
Please try to understand that I need some space right now. I’m currently going through a rough patch and the last thing I need are people who don’t understand. It’s not that I’m avoiding you, which is aside the point, but you haven’t been the only person I’ve recently “neglected.” Don’t mistake my silence and isolation for intentional...
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Day 04
Different seasons determine what I usually wear, but regardless of the heat or cold, I always wear a pair of socks (ankle, toe, or knee length).
What I wear to bed varies from a pair of sweats (slim fitting, over sized, or yoga pants) with a basic t-shirt (cropped, off the shoulder, or full size) or with a wife-beater to simply just wearing undergarments. Once it begins to become extremely cold,...
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Day 03
Since it doesn’t specify on the opposite sex or physical/emotional features, I’ll just speak on what attributes I’m naturally “attracted to.”
I tend to gravitate towards people who are creative, passionate, and respectful. It sounds like the expectation, but if you’re someone who is filled with negativity and disrespect, you’re typically the last person I...
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Day 02
I’ve experienced plenty of growth in the past two years; like every year, they’ve been an entire learning process. Change is inevitable and I’m glad certain things happened to enhance my self awareness. Over the course of two years, I’ve become both physically and emotionally/mentally stronger through experience. I have learned how to be more accepting and appreciative for...
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Day 01
My Tumblr name is “theCspot”. If it isn’t already obvious, it arised from “the G spot”. That doesn’t necessarily mean that’s what I’m all about (I’m actually far from it), so it wouldn’t be necessary to jump to conclusions. I just thought it was unique considering that this is “my spot,” “Charmaine’s blog...
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